5 Days in Seoul with My Mom | Day 3

Christmas in Seoul 2024

This Christmas was about presence over presents. Basically, it was all about spending quality time with each other. Christmas in Korea is quite different than the United States. It is basically what you make of it. Why is it so different and how?


Christmas in South Korea presents a unique blend of Western influences and local customs, distinguishing it from celebrations in countries like the United States. While Christmas is a national holiday in South Korea, its observance leans more towards a romantic occasion for couples rather than a family-centric event. (KCCNJ)

In the U.S., Christmas is traditionally a time for family gatherings, festive meals, and exchanging gifts among relatives. In contrast, South Korean culture emphasizes couple activities during this season. Many couples plan special dates, exchange gifts, and enjoy the festive ambiance together, akin to Valentine’s Day celebrations. (Korea JoongAng Daily)

Photo 1: Canva, American Christmas | Photo 2: Canva, Latino Christmas (Mexican in this picture) | Photo 3: https://www.utoimage.com/?m=goods.photo_view&idx=21868009

This difference stems partly from the religious demographics of South Korea. Although approximately 30% of the population identifies as Christian, the majority are non-religious or adhere to other faiths. Consequently, the religious significance of Christmas is less pronounced, allowing secular and romantic interpretations to flourish. (KCCNJ)

Additionally, South Korea has its own family-oriented holidays, such as Chuseok and Seollal (Lunar New Year), which are deeply rooted in tradition and involve family reunions and ancestral rites. With these established family holidays, Christmas has evolved to fill a different cultural niche, focusing on romantic and social engagements. (90 Day Korean)

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My family is actually from South America so our Christmases are very much more about family time and our religion than anything else. However, with so many of my family members traveling this holiday season without the linchpin of our grandparents, the celebrations this year were a bit more fractured. My sister traveled to spend Christmas with her in-laws since she spent Christmas with our family last year. So, it made the most sense for my mother to come to me in Korea! And boy, was I ever so excited when she told me the news! So, traditions or not, Christmas felt complete in my heart because I had my mom!

Now that we’ve covered the basics, let’s dive into what my mom and I got up to this Christmas. I, for one, miss having panettone paired with a warm cup of Abuelita hot chocolate. However, we had an awesome Christmas anyway! Keep reading!


Xenia Clinic

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On Christmas morning, we began our day with a nutritious breakfast (as my mom always insists haha) before heading to Xenia Clinic in Gangnam for our skin care treatments (received as a collaboration deal). My mom received the Aqua Peel treatment, while I experienced the 6-minute LDM treatment—both known for leaving skin refreshed and glowing.

I’ll be sharing a dedicated blog post and a more in-depth YouTube video about our experience at Xenia Clinic, so keep an eye out for those!

Important Note: Xenia Clinic has two locations in Gangnam:

  • Location 1: 5th Floor, KI Tower, 8 Gangnam-daero 69-gil, Seocho-gu, Seoul, South Korea
  • Location 2: 10th Floor, Gangnam Tower, 396 Seocho-daero, Seocho-gu, Seoul, South Korea
  • Website: Xenia Clinic English Website

We visited the one located behind the branch near Sinnonhyeon Station. Both are close together, but double-check your appointment details to avoid confusion.

My mom thought it was interesting and impressive how intensive and precise the treatments were and I was also satisfied with getting pampered and being able to share that experience with my mom. A dream come true!

https://xenia.clinic/user/main/index

Lunch and Shopping Adventures

Post-clinic, we were glowing but starving. Though my mom isn’t typically a fan of burgers, I am a huge fan and we grabbed a quick lunch at a familiar burger chain. Interestingly, I’ve found the same burger tastes fresher and better in Korea compared to the U.S., where it often feels rushed and bland. Do you like cheeseburgers? They’re my favorite food along with lasagna and anything my mom makes me!

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After lunch, we explored the Gangnam Underground Shopping Mall. While the clothes were beautiful, many had sleeves that were too long for my mom’s frame. However, she did find a stunning white, fluffy short jacket that fit her perfectly. We walked up and down every single one of the aisles and my mom saw a lot of pretty clothes that she liked. I usually don’t visit unless I want accessories or hats because my frame is much larger and it is hard to find clothes that 1) I like and, 2) that fit. However, it was really fun to show my mom everything and tell her all the stories and memories I have of the place since I’ve been here multiple times with a multitude of different people.

https://visitgangnam.net/en/destinations/gangnam-en/gangnam-station-underground-shopping-mall/

Next, we took Line 2 to Hongdae, one of Seoul’s trendiest districts for shopping. While my mom admired the styles, she didn’t make any purchases. My mom values a good deal and high quality and while the clothes were not bad, she is very particular on what she will spend her money on– a value I am still trying to learn. On our way back, we visited a pop-up snow globe market and walked around outside where we took a festive picture with a Christmas tree next to some rain-ready frogs—one of my mom’s favorite details despite the crowds.

The first three pictures above were taken in Gangnam and the bottom three in Hongdae! Why did we go to two very different areas? Well, the clinic was in Gangnam but, I live closer to Hongdae. So, after we were done with the treatments, eating lunch and shopping, we decided to get on the subway since the green line (Line 2) goes around the whole city practically and is the fastest way to get across town! Did you know that the Line 2 is now represented by a circle on the subway map? That’s why staying along this line is recommended so much because you can go to most of the most important and popular places in the city along that line… or should I say, circle?

Download or just look at it here: https://world.seoul.go.kr/redesign-of-the-seoul-metro-map-for-the-first-time-in-40-years/2023-seoul-metro-map/

A Savory Stop at Jayeondo Salt Bread

Since we were already in the area and shopping turned out to be a bust, we visited Jayeondo Salt Bread 자연도소금빵, a must-visit for its famous salt bread. My mom tried it but let me have most of it, which I was more than happy about! We waited 30 minutes in line, but the taste was worth it, especially with the mild winter weather. December is a great time to visit because it isn’t too cold yet. Usually we get the wind chills, snow, and general winter misery in January. I am glad because I didn’t want my mom to have to go through a painfully uncomfortable time!

Here is a reel from my first time trying this bread. It is hands down the best place to get it in the whole country!

Stocking Up at HomePlus

Before heading home, we stopped by HomePlus because my mom insisted on buying me plenty of vegetables and fruits to stock my fridge. To say she was shocked that my fridge and pantry were practically empty is an understatement. To be fair, I was trying to finish everything so I can start a new diet plan (when am I not on one?) and I got pretty close to finishing almost everything I had. That wasn’t going to fly for my mom though because she has to eat a lot of vegetables every day so she made sure to get me stocked up. That’s why I always thank God for my mother. He always knows what I need and when I need it.

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By the way, for transportation, we used the Seoul Climate Card:

  • Cost: 58,000 won (~$44 USD) for a monthly pass.
  • Short-Term Options: One-day and two-day passes are also available.
  • How to Load: You can recharge it at subway stations using a credit card or cash.
  • Official Website: Seoul Climate Card

Whether you are a local or a visitor in Korea, I would recommend getting this card because you don’t have to worry about stopping to reload. Remember to tap in and tap out and don’t lose it! Even though my mom left Korea, I am still using it and it really helps me to save money! I commute a lot for work and my average transportation spending is usually around 100,000 per month if not more. That means this card effectively cuts that cost in half. With day passes also available, it just makes sense!

Wrapping Up with KFC and a Facial

After a busy day, we took a taxi home since our grocery bags were too heavy. My mom craved KFC, so we set out on foot to the nearest branch. The cold got the best of us, and we took a cab instead. When we got home with the KFC (safely tucked into my coat to keep it hot), my mom prepared a huge salad to balance the meal, and we enjoyed it while watching Rebel Ridge on Netflix. My mom is picky about food (which explains why I am so picky, too) but she LOVED the chicken here. Safe to say that KFC Korea made a lasting impression! She got an 8-piece and then some chicken tenders because she knows I don’t like meat with bones in it. And, just like when I was a kid, she ripped little pieces of chicken breast off the bones of her chicken and gave it to me to eat. She also insisted I eat most of the salad. We both enjoyed our untraditional Christmas meal for sure!

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We had initially planned to go out afterward (I wanted to take her to see the Christmas Market at Gwanghwamun Square) but we were too exhausted from the day’s activities. So, I gave my mom a relaxing facial at home. She loved it so much that she fell asleep with the sheet mask on while I cleaned up around the house. Afterward, she felt relaxed and refreshed, ready for the next day’s adventure!

Curious about the facial routine I used for my mom? Drop a comment below if you’d like to know the steps and products I used!

Stay Tuned for Day 4!

Our Christmas Day was filled with self-care, shopping, and cozy moments. Stay tuned for Day 4, where we explore the vibrant neighborhood of Seongsu! Don’t forget to follow me on all my social channels at @melodyofherseoul for more stories, travel tips, and skincare insights.

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Published by melodyofherseoul

Long term expat living in Seoul, South Korea. Over thirty, plus size woman on a healing journey. I blog about the things that interest me like: cute cafes, bougie brunches, healing my heart, building my body, soothing my spirit, indulging in self care, and generally sharing my thoughts on this life that I live.

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